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9 Signs Relationship Experts Say Not to Ignore

"Love bombing" is a toxic sign of early investment used by narcissists to manipulate. 

1. Love bombing

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2. Obsession with social media

Insecure or self-centered people who obsess over their online presence, Ury warns.

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Dr. Behr believes a partner's silence indicates disconnection or distraction.

#3 Lack of communication

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#4 Controlling or jealous behavior

Trombetti warns that controlling partners can become emotionally abusive.

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Dr. Behr advises against choosing a life partner who constantly complains about their friends and family.

#5 Bad relationships with friends or family

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#6 Extreme emotional reactions

Trombetti sees uncontrolled emotions and lack of empathy as warning signs for future abuse.

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A partner's excessive drinking or drug use may indicate addiction, which requires a serious conversation.

#7 Substance or alcohol abuse

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#8 Gaslighting

Trombetti warns against gaslighting, which aims to make you doubt your sanity.

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Dr. Behr advises leaving relationships with verbal, emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.

#9 Downright abusive behavior