If I feel like I'm always the one starting things, I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If my spouse doesn't physically show me affection, I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If I believe my spouse is always attempting to alter me, I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If I don't feel emotionally safe with my spouse, I won't put effort into the relationship.
If my spouse doesn't make me feel valued and adored, I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If my spouse isn't as structured and responsible as I am, then I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If my spouse doesn't treat me with respect and equality, I won't put any effort into the relationship.
If my spouse doesn't demonstrate unwavering devotion and dedication to me, I won't put any effort into the connection.
If I believe my spouse is attempting to limit my freedom and independence, I will not put any effort into the relationship.
If my spouse doesn't have similar long-term objectives and aspirations, I won't invest time and energy into our relationship.
if my companion is too conventional and doesn't value my uniqueness and innovative ideas.
Pisces: If my partner is insensitive and doesn't value my emotional intelligence.