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Relationship Red Flags You Should Never, Ever Ignore

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#1 He has no boundaries

Frustration results from disregard for boundaries or personal space. Jokes, offensive language, and requesting private information are not acceptable.

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Slip-ups in secrecy do occur, but if it happens twice in front of the wrong person, it's probably a foe.

#2 He spills your secrets

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#3 He freaks out

Don't put up with grownup drama freakouts. It demonstrates their lack of emotional control, which may be a result of anxiety, immaturity, or bullying inclinations.

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Move on to someone who cares, if they won't listen or avoid sensitive topics. Don't waste time on people who don't respect your opinions or emotions.

#4 He stonewalls you

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#5  He's a liar

A trust issue is present if your friend or partner lies to avoid difficult conversations. There cannot be a relationship without trust.

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Our character is revealed by how we respond under duress. Neglecting others reveals more about us than it does about them. Once done, people tend to repeat their actions.

#6 He disrespects you

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#7 He always wants something from you

Random "thinking of you" texts with ulterior motives aren't cool. True friends support, not just take. Speak up and set boundaries.

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Relationship outcomes are determined by how you respond to mistakes. Be wary if they act like a victim and offer justifications or blame former coworkers or bosses.

#8 He never accepts responsibility

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#9 He's manipulative

Gaslighters trick you by denying reality and instilling self-doubt. They might act hurt towards you before making fun of your response. Don't put up with it.

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We all have intuition, and it's real. Embrace yours.

#10 You have an uneasy feeling 

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#11 He never makes time to see you

Avoid texting for more than ten days without making any commitments to meet. He's probably not serious if he's not making an attempt.

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