Slip-ups in secrecy do occur, but if it happens twice in front of the wrong person, it's probably a foe.
Move on to someone who cares, if they won't listen or avoid sensitive topics. Don't waste time on people who don't respect your opinions or emotions.
Our character is revealed by how we respond under duress. Neglecting others reveals more about us than it does about them. Once done, people tend to repeat their actions.
Relationship outcomes are determined by how you respond to mistakes. Be wary if they act like a victim and offer justifications or blame former coworkers or bosses.
Gaslighters trick you by denying reality and instilling self-doubt. They might act hurt towards you before making fun of your response. Don't put up with it.
We all have intuition, and it's real. Embrace yours.
Avoid texting for more than ten days without making any commitments to meet. He's probably not serious if he's not making an attempt.