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Unspoken Divorce Effects

Taking care of things on their own gives people more power. Joy and freedom come from rebuilding.

It can be a big relief

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Your relationship with your ex might improve

divorced people can come to appreciate their ex as a friend and even be proud of what they've done.

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Be careful when trying to get back together with your ex. It often backfires and makes things worse

But it takes time before you can be friends.

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It's a grieving process

Divorce is like a death because there are many things to mourn. Get help from a professional and hang out with positive people to stay on track.

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 Focusing on the business side instead of how you feel can help you and your family make better decisions.

But it's also a business transaction

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"Moving on" is much harder than it sounds

Divorce is harder than you might think, and it takes time to separate your life from that of your spouse.

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"Even after a bad divorce, people still care about their ex. Even if someone hurts you, it's important to be kind."

You may feel sorry for your spouse

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You'll lose some friendships

Divorce can mean losing not only your partner but also friends you used to hang out with together.

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When parents share custody of their kids, it can give them more time for self-care and a stronger sense of who they are apart from their fiance.

You will have more time for self-care