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Warning Signs Of A Bad Friendship

Multiple Blue Rings

"Top 5 indicators that a friendship won't endure: 1. Making an effort is one-sided. 2. A lack of trust. 3. Persistent negativity. 4. Separation. 5. There are no excuses."

Burst

"A real friend will listen intently and show interest in you. When someone talks over you or disregards you, don't overlook the warning signs."

1. They Talk Over You

Multiple Blue Rings

Are they simply agitated and chatty, or is there anything else going on? Words will never be as powerful as deeds.

Burst

This holds true for every friendship, regardless of how recent. Their willingness to stand up for you to the very end is the genuine test of a loyal friendship.

2. They Don’t Stand Up For You

Multiple Blue Rings

The assurance that your friend will be there for you no matter what brings love and community to a friendship. Can't have it if people laugh at you rather than with you.

Burst

A friend who only shows up when it's convenient for them is a red sign. It's simple to overlook, but don't blame yourself; it's probably on purpose.

3. They Aren’t There When You Struggle

Multiple Blue Rings

"They are not a real friend if they leave you when you need them after you have supported them. A true friend supports you in all circumstances."

Burst

You shouldn't have to deal with last-minute texts all the time, whether they're invitations to hang out or cancellations of arrangements.

4. You Feel Like A Last Resort

Multiple Blue Rings

Life is hectic, and we may all occasionally be guilty of it. So it might be time to find better mates if you're being shunned, ghosted, or experiencing all of the above.

Burst

It's one thing to have friends that are challenging to spend out with, but quite another when being with them drains you.

5. They Suck Away Your Energy

Multiple Blue Rings

"Don't force a bond that drains you. It's acceptable if the energies don't mesh. Let things go and let the past be the past."

Burst